I read this interesting article about two souls, relationships, and love. I extracted some part that I think I could share with all of you~ Enjoy (^.^)
Have you ever felt like you knew someone a long, long time ago? Another place, another time, a friendship of the souls? Two people who share a bond for reasons neither know, A feeling that they were friends, a long, long time ago?
Did they stumble onto each other by pure circumstance, Or was it fate and destiny that played a certain hand? Two souls intertwined, they are worlds apart, But the soul, it knows no difference, in matters of the heart.
Somehow they are drawn together, fate has brought them back, Each living worlds apart, they journey separate paths. When this life is over, and a new life begins, Their souls will find each other, two souls that we call friends.
Taken from an article written by the Author, Lia Fail
Hi...It's Monday today and today I want to share about another meaning of friendship....we are here for a reason and God created us to be talkative, and the means of talkative is to get along and meet new friends, we are made not to be alone and not everything could be solved by using both hands but the hands of your friends....
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say
I'm sorry for what I've done, and what I haven't done. I could have done better, I should have done more.
If I harmed you, yelled at you, ignored you, or didn't care...
I'm so sorry..
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say
If me and you were the best of friends, I thank you for always being there.
If you and me only talked once in a while, and didn't have much time, and we fight sometimes, thank you for humbling me.
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say everything.... That I never had time to.
And if tomorrow never comes, I wanted to say I Love You!!!
I love you 'coz you're my friend, my companion, my shadow My source, my energy, my total support.
You are not perfect, and I am not either, But thank you for having a big big part in my life...
Aloha friends!! M back with some great stuffs that I read from a source on the net!
So are you worry now? Izzit you are having exams? Izzit you have soem problems? Well, All human beings worry sometime or the other.
The following ten steps can help you keep your worries at bay, and I found it quite useful ;p
Step 1: Never worry alone. Talk to someone about your problems. This will help put your problems in proper perspctive.
Step 2: Get the facts: Find out if your worry has any basis. Write down what is worrying you, it will help you isolate and identify the problem.
Step3: Take action. Don’t waste your time or energy on worrying. Try to confront and resolve your problems. Avoiding difficulties creates more stress in the long run.
Step 4: Take care of your body: exercise daily, eat healthy food and get enough sleep, because exercising will help relax your muscles. Taking care of your body physically will not only reduce tension, but also gives more energy to deal with the problem.
Step 5: Live for the moment : don’t worry about what will happen in the future and what happened in the past. Focus instead on the present.
step 6: Be positive: always focus on the positive side of things instead of brooding on negative thoughts. Develop a sense of humour.
Step 7: Set aside a worry period of about 30 minutes to think about your problems, arrive at solutions and ease your tensions.
Step 8: Remain busy: plenty of action is a cure for worry. Keeping yourself busy eliminates negative thoughts from your mind.
Step 9: Avoid self – medication: do not resort to taking unnecessary drugs or alcohol. Take professional help, if needed.
Step 10: Finally, count your blessings: whenever your worries make you feel low, think of the blessings. You will start to feel better.
These steps would help you in anything, so remember these 10 steps if you are worrying about something. Okiez~ gotta go, it's moving time....;p
I read this article from the physiology of studying relationships between Man and Women and here are the fun facts that I learned from that article....and It's TRUE and the one I am posting here is not a E-mail or a forum Joke! Read on....
1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls. 2. Guys hate flirts. 3.When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is. 4. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. 5. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics. 6. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. 7. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention. 8. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back. 9. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow". 10. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly. 11. Guys love their moms. 12. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses. 13. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her. 14. You can never understand him unless you listen to him. 15. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does. 16. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can. 17. Like Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses. 18. Guys are very open about themselves. 19. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long. 20. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot. 21. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty. 22. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. 23. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. 24. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them. 25. Guys think too much. 26. Guys fantasies are unlimited. 27. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does! 28. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!! 29. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls. 30. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes. 31. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you. 32. Guys hate girls who overreact. 33. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.
Sometimes, these applies to most guys...including me haha~ oh well, gotta go Swimming with Chih Ceng~ see ya~
A leader's job often includes changing your people's attitudes and behavior. I am a leader of quite a lot of things but its hard to handle when your friends is the people that is lead by you, so I asked a lot of people, technically leaders from various clubs and associations including ITSA, SASA, SSLA, CCS and Buddies and here is what I found:
There were some suggestions given by my close friends to accomplish this:
1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation. 2. Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly. 3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person. 4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. 5. Let the other person save face. 6. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise." 7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to. 8. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct. 9. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
Thanks to my seniors and friends who were actually understands me and It's very hard to instruct your own close Friend to work under you when they don't know how to help you. so If you are a leader, be considerate and by working together, you could build a stronger, better team! ^^
Okie...I am a computer programmer (Still studying....) and I read these article on new diseases and symptoms due to computers....as "Really wanted to know badly" as usual, I clicked and I saw those problems....so I think I should share it with all of my lovely readers and friends...
As more and more work, education and recreation involves computers, everyone needs to be aware of the hazards of computer-related health disorders like carpal tunnel syndrome, repetitive stress Injuries, computer vision syndrome, cyber addiction, etc. These conditions can be serious and painful and if neglected can cause young and physically fit individuals leave computer-dependent careers or be permanently disabled.
Here are some of the most prominent computer related health ailments:
Carpal Tunnel Syndrome (CTS): Common actions like mouse clicks that need constant wrist and index finger movements and typing that requires repetitive finger movement, are most likely to strain tendons and ligaments, leading to microscopic tearing, pain and swelling. The swelling pinches the median nerve that runs through the narrow carpal tunnel at the wrist, causing CTS. Soreness, numbness, a tingling feeling and wrist pain are other symptoms. CTS is not something which goes away after popping a few pills. The healing process for CTS is usually long and frustrating, depending on how serious the condition is. Gees....This really freaks me up man!! LOL~
Repetitive Strain Injuries (RSI): They occur from repeated physical movements which cause damage to tendons, nerves, muscles and other soft tissues. RSIs are on the rise with increased computer use, faulty typing techniques, poor body posture and positions. Lack of adequate rest between work and excessive use of force while using the mouse or the keyboard can lead to RSIs. The symptoms of RSI are tightness, discomfort, stiffness, burning in the hands, wrist, fingers, forearms and elbows. Tingling, coldness and numbness of the hands with loss of strength and lack of co-ordination occurs. There is pain in the upper back, shoulders and neck and a need to massage them. As for me, I always got the pain on the neck....
Computer Vision Syndrome: There is no scientific evidence to indicate that regular use of computer threatens eye health or results in permanent visual damage. Computer vision syndrome is the complex of eye and vision problems related to near work which are experienced during computer use. The symptoms consist of fatigue, headache, dry eyes, eye strain, blurred vision, neck pain, backache, altered color perception, double vision, etc. People who use computers for more than two hours a day can develop computer vision syndrome. Predisposing conditions like uncorrected or improperly corrected refractive errors, binocular dysfunctions and focusing deficiencies may exacerbate the problem. Poor lighting, inadequate viewing distance, improperly designed workstation, poor contrast, glare and reflection all contribute to computer vision syndrome.....I got it too....and what's more....I wear glasses because of that...arrrgh!
Depression: A recent study has found a high degree of co-relation between the time spent online and an increased incidence of depression. It is believed that these individuals lead an unfulfilled social life, which leads to further loneliness and depression.
Computer Or Cyber Addiction: This is a problem very similar to pathological gambling or compulsive shopping. The symptoms of computer addiction are quite specific. The psychological symptoms are: having a sense of well-being or euphoria while at the computer, inability to stop the activity and craving for more time at the computer, neglect of family and friends, lying to employers and family about activities, feeling empty, depressed or irritable when not at the computer....luckily....I was just wanted to ease stress by playing farm town, restaurant city, pet society and ...blogging!! haha
So, If you are reading this.....I hope you tell your friends and loved ones about it!
We all have the same question: Why is life so tough?
Well, there's an easy answer to that.Let me put his way....upon on all the things we do everyday...in our own University, our own hostel, our own Angkasa Condo lives....lets see if you agreed with me or not ~
Bad is easy, Good is hard. Losing is easy. Winning is hard. Talking is easy. Listening is hard. Watching TV is easy. Reading is hard. Giving advice is easy. Taking advice is hard. Stop is easy. Go is hard. Dirty is easy. Clean is hard. Take is easy. Give is hard. Dream is easy. Think is hard. Lying is easy. Truth is hard. Sleeping is easy. Waking is hard. Holding a grudge is easy. Forgiving is hard. Telling a secret is easy. Keeping a secret is hard. Play is easy. Work is hard. Falling is easy. Getting up is hard. Spending is easy. Saving is hard. Eating is easy. Dieting is hard. Doubt is easy. Faith is hard. Laughter is easy. Tears are hard. Criticizing is easy. Taking criticism is hard. Letting go is easy. Hanging on is hard. Pride is easy. Humility is hard. Excusing oneself is easy. Excusing others is hard Borrowing is easy. Paying back is hard. Sex is easy. Love is hard. Argument is easy. Negotiation is hard. Naughty is easy. Nice is hard. Going along is easy. Walking alone is hard. Dumb is easy. Smart is hard. Cowardice is easy. Bravery is hard. Messy is easy. Neat is hard. War is easy. Peace is hard. Sarcasm is easy. Sincerity is hard. An F is easy. An A is hard. Growing weeds is easy. Growing flowers is hard. Reaction is easy. Action is hard. Can't do is easy. Can do is hard. Feasting is easy. Fasting is hard. Following is easy. Leading is hard. Having friend is easy. Being a friend is hard. Dying is easy. Living is hard!!
No matter who we are, life is hard, and we all ask why it should be so. But there is comfort in knowing we're not alone. Your family and friends are always there ^^ Therefore sasy is its own reward, hard is much, much finer. Agreed? hehe
Feelings...is a hard word to described....some people said...."You won't understand my feelings" or "What do you know about my feelings?". Basically, feelings is regarded as "To think and to feel". Feelings happens 24/7 and its everywhere, as long you have the brains to think! Recently , I encountered a lot of problems evolving feelings. So I went back to my room...played the guitar and came out with my own opinion, here it is! ;)
Feelings can be classified into two types, that is good and bad. Good feelings involved things that is related to relationship, love and friendship, situations and anything that is related to emotions and Bad feelings is the opposite of the Good one....obviously (@.@)
A good feeling is easy to develop and once that good feeling is stimulated, memories will took place. As for me, everything is up to you and you are responsible towards your feelings. for instance, you have been invited to attend a birthday party that is the party of the person you liked very much, and the more deeper the feelings you poured into that party, the bigger the effort you planned to attend and buy the present you wanted to give him/her.
A bad feeling is the worse agenda, if you have been developing bad feelings, it will effect everything around you...including your precious time with your family and friends and study/work. This may eventually drawn you to giving up certain things....and that is not healthy to your body and mind... bad feeling is always drawn to Negative taught and it always happens after an incident, relationship problem, too much stress and education/work dilemma.
As a conclusion, we don't understand other people's feeling because we don't even know how to control ours! So, do what you could only do to help the people who is very down. When they needed you, that's time you could raise their spirits! ^^
Hey, I got this cool article and I would like to share it with you all~
A to Z, cool one! Read on....
A Good Friend...
Accepts you as you are, Believes in you, Calls you just to say "Hi!" Doesn't give up on you, Envisions the whole of you! Forgives your mistakes, Gives unconditionally, Helps you when you need a hand! Ignores your little flaws, Just wants to be with you, Keeps you close to their heart, Loves you for who you are! Makes a difference in your life! Never judges unfairly, Offers support, Picks you up when you're down! Quiets your fears, Raises your spirits, Says nice things about you, and Tells you the truth when you need to hear it! Understands you, Values the good things in you, Walks beside you through sun or rain! Xplains things you don't understand, Yells when you won't listen, and ZAPS you back to reality when you need it!
Cool huh?~ Felt like wanna sing A-Z song, wakakaka~
Today I wanna share something which involves my favorite method of putting meaningful words into a short alphabetical alphabets. So m gonna show whats FRIENDSHIP means....
"F" is for Fun. That friends share when they are together. Lets go Yam Cha or got watch movies or Sing K!! hehe
"R" is for Reliability. A true friend is someone that you can always rely on. Don't ever think your friends as your tools, you only rely on them when you needed them, so what's the point of having friends? So make sure you don't regard your friends as tools.
"I" is for Interest. Someone who is genuinely interested in you, your fears, joys, and life. True right? haha
"E" is for Energy. They pick you up when you are down, and give you the energy to go on and believe in yourself. The advises that my friends gave me is my energy!
"N" is for Nothing. Nothing is ever too much, no matter what time it is, night or day. You are always be there without a reason. That's what friendship are!
"D" is for Distance. Although the miles may separate you, a true friend is never far away.
"S" is for Secrets. Your feelings and personal/private thoughts that you can only share with a friend.
"H" is for Happiness. The way one feels when they are with a friend.
"I" is for Inseparable. Through good times and bad, tears and laughter. A friend will always be there for you. Correct?
"P" is for Perfect. The friendship. No relationship would be perfect without Friendship, one have, you will have the perfect FRIENDSHIP!
So what's the topic today? Love Speaks! Eh? M I in love....nah...it's just something that I wanted to share with all of you~
When you are beginning to start a relationship with someone, you must know that what you have to do once you entered in this stage...yah, I know you will find it romantic...but there is certain things that I wanted to emphasize..... =)
To love... is a duty, Yeap, once you are omitted into love, you have a responsibility to carry! It may be hard but remember that Time will do the trick, do it slowly and be patient, all godo things won't fall just like that from the sky ;)
To be loved.....is a success, In today's world, we often heard puppy love or instance love or whatsoever you may called that, but do you ever being loved by someone? To start a relationship, it starts from friendship! Remember that, the more weakness you find from him/her the more you cared about him/her! So if you are being loved, I would say its a success because you open the doors to the people and they accepted you!
To be with someone you love....is an Achievement, Hey, to achieve this it's harder than finding a diamond or get a Master PHD in your studies. Remember, don't confused yourself with Like and Love, both holds different meanings and If you really loved someone, make sure you have been together for a period of time (Based on an article I obtain, to have a deeper relationship and to understand him/her is to give him/her at least 4 months). To those who already a couple, praise yourself, its an achievement! ^^
To be with someone who loves you.....is Life, The ultimate goal and the hardest and the rarest one! Basically, searching for Mr /Mrs Perfect is always hard and always ended with disappointment. So why put yourself in high hopes? Remember this,
1. It doesn't matter if you are beautiful/handsome or not, be considerate on the inside. (People can do Drama at anytime, anywhere and that's why movies and hong kong Drama's were so Hot these days XD! So be careful who you wanted to be with, be with those people who has the kindness in their hearts is always there to help you. Who knows he/she is beside you now! Do appreciate them 1st before focusing into other people!)
2. A gift is not a gift if you already know what's inside. (Life is full of surprises and same goes to a relationship! Don't let your feelings ruin the friendship. Start to cement the bond as friends first, not as a lover. If you have a firm friendship, the likelihood of that person shying away from you is less when you tell him or her your feelings. Because it might be just a one off attraction it is always good to give yourself a month or two as a guage of whether this person is actually the one for you but do not be a spy, once you are the spy, then she/he may be avoiding you...remember, be patience- as what my family says:"don't open untill Christmas!"~ LOLx)
When both is in love with each other, you have achieve the ultimate goal. I heard from someone once said "I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your family and friends, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life." So, cherish the relationship you have now, once gone from your life, it's hard to trace them back. Be appreciative, be fruitful in your life! ^^
In science - Your smile provides me Oxygen to breath In Commerce - Your smile means more than a billion ringgit. In Psychology - Your smile stimulates my positive emotions. In Archaeology- Your smile lasts for a billion years and to preserve it is for eternally. In History - Your smile brings back sweet memories since the day we first met. In Astrology - You smile reflects the beautiful starts that shines forever in the night sky. In Music - Your smile is the rhythm that ease my soul. In Mathematics - Your smile is the sum of everything.
So what else could your smile would be? Everything in the world, your smile is the source to everything.... XD