I found this article from a web source, It stated the understandings of women towards men, do read on and see what is your opinions....here we go!
So girls are from Venus and boys are from Mars. We are from different planets and met on Earth occasionally. Men think that all women are different and there is no way to understand them. Women think that all men are the same, and there is no way to change them. Men are trying to understand women, and women are trying to change men. As a result, we barely understand each other. It would be better for us to admit that listening to ourselves and each other we can try to avoid some serious relationship mistakes. Finally, both men and women do make mistakes.
Those typical female may seem very obvious and simple - we've read about them, we've heard about them - but we've never supposed it is all about us. Maybe thats the worst female mistake.
So what are the reasons for the ship to start going down?
Man searching a wife in the image and likeness of his mom is a notorious fact. But he needs a woman, not a second mom. He is a big boy and don't need to be guided by any woman. Stop telling him what to do, don't control his every step. Sooner or later even the most patient partner will be annoyed.
Men like pretty women, but that doesn't mean they have to get closely aquatinted with the things that make Cinderella a princess. A woman doesn't have to put her make-up or do her exercises only in the state of a total secrecy, but still all those thick green and read masks on a face dont excite any man. Its a mistake not to accept the fact that a man is scarcely interested in all those female creams, scrubs, masks, anti-cellulite gels; he wont ask how your diet is going, or whether you think that hair balsam is right for his type of hair. Don't even try to pull him into all this stuff. A woman should be already grateful for him to notice positive results of all those beauty procedures.
Another female mistake is to close the eyes on those little flaws in relationships that grow day by day. That kind of negligence can turn once passionate love into everyday routine, when two people simply dont notice each over anymore.
Lots of problems and mutual mistakes come from the bedroom. He wants sex - she wants romantics, which she thinks sex is. She makes too many rituals, while he wants it quick and simple; or he wants sex, while she wants something high and spiritual.
Another female mistake is made by some mothers, while they give affection, care and attention to a child, forgetting all around. So they run risks to wake up for a moment from their motherhood and find out that something wrong is happening to their husbands.
One more naive female mistake, not very harmful but yet unpleasant, is that women take mant impudence to ignore them as a personal offence. Women don't like to admit their being wrong. The man is always the one to blame. They set the rules, so they should pay for everything that goes out of order.
In the age of the established feminism and the victory of sexual revolution men and women are equal in both making mistakes and paying for them. If a woman considers a man to be guilty of making a mistake? It means she has given him a huge part of her own life responsibility.
Frequently a woman is afraid of analyzing her female mistakes, because deep inside her soul she is scared to find out a number one female mistake ? she has chosen the wrong man.
Life? Matters?
Life is complete mystery and puzzle.
It presents to us a host of opportunities
to make or break our present and future.
It offers to all of us 1440 minutes each day
to be the best we can be and
to do the best that we can do
in all given circumstances.
Life gives us the leeway and freedom
to make our choices whether wise or unwise, good or bad.
We choose our friends, mentors, professions
and the overall destiny in our lives.
The bottom line is that we approach
our daily moments with little devotion,
little commitment, little dedication…little everything.
We sometimes adopt an ad-hoc approach in issues
that insert real meaning and impact in our lives.
We are half-hearted in matters poised to catapult us
to higher altitudes of success.
We often ignore the fact that if anything
is to happen in our lives, it will depend on us.
The house you build will only be as strong and splendid
as your choice of raw materials and finishing touches.
Apparently, we sometimes build our houses with weak materials
and apply poor finishing touches forgetting
that the houses are our shelters for a lifetime.
You should give the best of your masonry skills
in the building of your house.
Any shoddy work is unacceptable.
Your precious life requires the same attention and care
if it is to serve you well in the future.
It is disgusting to regret for the deposits you make in your life.
Give it your best shot in all circumstances.
"Have patience with all things,
but chiefly have patience with yourself.
Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections
but instantly set about remedying them–
every day begin the task anew."
by Saint Francis de Sales
It presents to us a host of opportunities
to make or break our present and future.
It offers to all of us 1440 minutes each day
to be the best we can be and
to do the best that we can do
in all given circumstances.
Life gives us the leeway and freedom
to make our choices whether wise or unwise, good or bad.
We choose our friends, mentors, professions
and the overall destiny in our lives.
The bottom line is that we approach
our daily moments with little devotion,
little commitment, little dedication…little everything.
We sometimes adopt an ad-hoc approach in issues
that insert real meaning and impact in our lives.
We are half-hearted in matters poised to catapult us
to higher altitudes of success.
We often ignore the fact that if anything
is to happen in our lives, it will depend on us.
The house you build will only be as strong and splendid
as your choice of raw materials and finishing touches.
Apparently, we sometimes build our houses with weak materials
and apply poor finishing touches forgetting
that the houses are our shelters for a lifetime.
You should give the best of your masonry skills
in the building of your house.
Any shoddy work is unacceptable.
Your precious life requires the same attention and care
if it is to serve you well in the future.
It is disgusting to regret for the deposits you make in your life.
Give it your best shot in all circumstances.
"Have patience with all things,
but chiefly have patience with yourself.
Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections
but instantly set about remedying them–
every day begin the task anew."
by Saint Francis de Sales
Show your love before its too late...
Daniel: I guess we are the left overs in this world.
Jasmine: I think so.. All of my friends have boyfriends & we are the only 2 persons left in this world without any special someone in our lives.
Daniel: Yup! I don't know what to do.
Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game.
Daniel: What game?
Jasmine: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days & you will be my boyfriend.
Daniel: That's a great plan in fact, I don't have anything to do for the following weeks..
DAY 1:
They watched their first movie together & were both touched in the romantic film.
DAY 4:
They went to the beach & had a picnic... Daniel & Jasmine had their quality time together.
DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they went to a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared and she tried to touch Daniel's hand but by accident she touched someone else's and they both laughed..
DAY 14:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and asked for their future. The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your lives... spend your time together happily." Then tears flow from the teller's eyes.
DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something .
DAY 28:
They rode on a bus and because of the bumpy road, Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident.
DAY 29:
11:37 pm
Daniel & Jasmine were sitting in the park where they first decided to play this game ...
Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine... do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..
Jasmine: Apple juice would be fine,thanks.
Daniel: Wait for me...
20 minutes later ... a stranger approched Jasmine.
Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?
Jasmine: Yes, why? What happened?
Stranger : A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel & he is critical in the hospital .
11:57pm
The doctor came out from the emergency room & handed out an apple juice & a letter to Jasmine.
Doctor: We found this in Daniel's pocket.
Jasmine read the letter which says:
Jasmine, this past few days, I realized you are really a cute girl & I am falling for you.. your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game.. & before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life. I love you, Jasmine...
Jasmine crumples the paper & shouted..
"Daniel! I don't want you to die...I love you... Remember that night we saw a meteor? I mumbled something.. I wished that we would be together forever & never end this game. Please don't leave me, Daniel... I love you, you cannot do this to me
Then the clock strikes 12
Daniel's heart stop pumping
THEN IT WAS THE 30th DAY...
Always love your loved ones & show them how you feel before it's too late.. You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace.. If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion & love to your love ones, today is the day. Love them while they are still here...
Jasmine: I think so.. All of my friends have boyfriends & we are the only 2 persons left in this world without any special someone in our lives.
Daniel: Yup! I don't know what to do.
Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game.
Daniel: What game?
Jasmine: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days & you will be my boyfriend.
Daniel: That's a great plan in fact, I don't have anything to do for the following weeks..
DAY 1:
They watched their first movie together & were both touched in the romantic film.
DAY 4:
They went to the beach & had a picnic... Daniel & Jasmine had their quality time together.
DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they went to a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared and she tried to touch Daniel's hand but by accident she touched someone else's and they both laughed..
DAY 14:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and asked for their future. The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your lives... spend your time together happily." Then tears flow from the teller's eyes.
DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something .
DAY 28:
They rode on a bus and because of the bumpy road, Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident.
DAY 29:
11:37 pm
Daniel & Jasmine were sitting in the park where they first decided to play this game ...
Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine... do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..
Jasmine: Apple juice would be fine,thanks.
Daniel: Wait for me...
20 minutes later ... a stranger approched Jasmine.
Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?
Jasmine: Yes, why? What happened?
Stranger : A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel & he is critical in the hospital .
11:57pm
The doctor came out from the emergency room & handed out an apple juice & a letter to Jasmine.
Doctor: We found this in Daniel's pocket.
Jasmine read the letter which says:
Jasmine, this past few days, I realized you are really a cute girl & I am falling for you.. your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game.. & before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life. I love you, Jasmine...
Jasmine crumples the paper & shouted..
"Daniel! I don't want you to die...I love you... Remember that night we saw a meteor? I mumbled something.. I wished that we would be together forever & never end this game. Please don't leave me, Daniel... I love you, you cannot do this to me
Then the clock strikes 12
Daniel's heart stop pumping
THEN IT WAS THE 30th DAY...
Always love your loved ones & show them how you feel before it's too late.. You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace.. If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion & love to your love ones, today is the day. Love them while they are still here...
